Christina snagged Paul early the following morning. “Can we talk for a minute?”
“Sure, Christina, what’s up?”
“I thought I’d check into the mind-set if that’s possible of the perp. I don’t get it.”
“Ok, go on,” Paul urged.
“According to what I’ve found, there are four types of stalkers.
Ok, I get that.”
“And?” Paul urged.
“The next kind are rejected stalkers ambivalent toward victims.
- sometimes clearly angry out for revenge
- sometimes to help them feel close to the victim
- in other times to salvage their damaged self-esteem
“So far so good,” Paul said.
“I’ve been studying these “types” for awhile. It seems to me this guy has crossed over, if I’m reading this correctly. He doesn’t seem to fit into any particular category. He’s been stalking mom for months, sent the letters, photos, etc. He hasn’t approached her and doesn’t seem like he’ll quit. He’s moved into threatening and physically hurting those close to her. My question is, is this possible?”
“I know as much about stalking as you do for the most part, Christina. So far your assessment is right on target. He’s crossing all kinds of boundaries and what boundaries there are don’t exist. He doesn’t or hasn’t sent any notes apologizing so I don’t think he understand what he’s doing. I also agree his goal is an intimate relationship with your mother (obviously perceived only in his mind). He’s proven dangerous and threatening.”
“I know that psychologists suggest none be treated as criminals, but for my money, when we catch this guy, he will be. He’s physically hurt you and Brandon, his threats are real, he pretended to send a bomb but couldn’t quite follow through. Whether that was fear for himself or any “imagined” concern for your mother’s welfare is debateable.
“So does that mean he’ll try to kill mom when he realises she doesn’t want him?”
“I wished I could tell you otherwise, but I figure that’s the scenario that exists, yes.”
“Then please, shoot him!”
Paul walked toward Christina and opened his farm wide and she walked toward him and fell against his chest and he felt more than heard gentle sobs. Wrapping his arms tight around her he said, “I have no intention of letting this miscreant get away, Christina. He’s a low-life criminal intent on harm.”
Useful lesson on stalkers! And a good story.
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Thanks. It is how some view stalkers and too many aren’t aware how serious it is. Then there are the bleeding hearts that dont feel they should be treated as criminals. BS they act like criminals so treat them as such…they destroy the lives and or kill others, their actions are criminal in my book. rant over. lol
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I don’t see this guy giving up easily. Definitely needs to beconfined.
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Indeed. Contemplating where to go at the moment.
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